Merle Haggard: “No Time to Cry”

Haggard 1996

Our song of the day features Merle Haggard covering an Iris DeMent song that appeared on one of his overlooked albums from the 1990s. In “No Time to Cry,” the singer begins by remembering his father’s funeral from a year before, moving into a meditation on live, it’s joys and it’s pains.

When I first heard Haggard’s version from his album 1996, I though he might have wrote it or that it had been written for him. The song perfectly fits his weathered voice at the time of an older person. Although Merle Haggard was only in his late 50’s when he recorded “No Time to Cry,” he always seemed much older than his age.

The singer looks back through the years, realizing life is full of pain. But in the end, you cannot stop the pain or cry for everyone.

Now I sit down on the sofa and I watch the evening news:
There’s a half a dozen tragedies from which to pick and choose;
The baby that was missing was found in a ditch today;
And there’s bombs a’flying and people dying not so far away;
And I’ll take a beer from the refrigerator,
And go sit out in the yard and with a cold one in my hand;
I’m going to bite down and swallow hard,
Because I’m older now: I’ve got no time to cry.

Iris DeMent’s Version

In Haggard’s version, he sounds weary. He sounds hardened by what he has seen. By contrast, in Iris DeMent‘s original version from her album My Life (1993), her haunting voice sounds like someone barely able to keep from crying. Her version reveals the raw emotions nearer to the surface than the old man in Haggard’s version. She takes longer

Listen to just the way Haggard adds “it’s true” near the end at around the 3:45 mark. It is as if the singer is reminding himself that he cannot cry. DeMent’s version does not add that declaration, perhaps because the singer does not quite believe it is true.

DeMent’s recording clocks in at nearly seven minutes, while Haggard’s song takes just four and a half minutes. He is making a declaration, telling you his story, while DeMent takes longer because she is trying to convince herself of her strength in the wake of everything. Both versions are wonderful. Here is DeMent’s take on her song “No Time to Cry.”

Haggard’s choice to cover the song reveals his great taste in music that fits him. But he also admired DeMent’s work, having earlier praised DeMent’s version of his song “Big City” on the Haggard tribute album, Tulare Dust.

Which version of “No Time to Cry” do you like best? Leave your two cents in the comments.

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    I have been a fan of Jesse Malin’s work since he released The Fine Art of Self-Destruction in the U.S. back in 2003. So, I was particularly excited to hear that Lucinda Williams was producing his latest album, Sunset Kids.

    The album also features a duet with Malin and Williams. The song is “Room 13.” Malin explained to Rolling Stone that that song is about loneliness: “Music can be a great way to hide the pain and loneliness, but sometimes you’ve gotta deal with it head on. ‘Room 13’ is that place far away from the distractions, the noise and the telephone zombies. It’s a place where you’re forced to reflect on what really matters most.” Check it out.

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    Song of the Day: “Me & My Dog” by boygenius

    Me & My Dog

    Earlier in 2018, Julien Baker, Phoebe Bridgers, and Lucy Dacus joined together as boygenius to create a self-titled EP. The three, who have had some success separately as singers and songwriters, joined together as a group after booking a tour together. Now, they are receiving rave reviews for their collaboration.

    One of the tracks on the EP is “My & My Dog,” written by Bridgers, who sings the verses before being joined by Baker and Dacus on the chorus. The recording illustrates the wonderful blend of voices that the three create. The song itself is not really about a dog, but about love and the loss of a relationship.

    I wanna hear one song without thinking of you;
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    Just me and my dog and an impossible view.

    Check out boygenius performing “Me & My Dog” live at the WFUV studios from November 2018.



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    Cole Graceland

    Singer-songwriter Katie Cole takes us to church in her new single, “Graceland.” Cole, who was born in Australia but now lives in Nashville, was inspired to write the song with co-writer Sam Brooker after a visit to Elvis Presley’s home.

    “Graceland” is in the voice of someone who has wronged their lover. Cole’s wonderful voice gives an emotional depth to the song, while sometimes a choir backs her up. Check it out.

    It’s a long road I’m on to get me here,
    When all the lights have gone out but the stars;
    So I’ll follow them, wherever they lead me dear,
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    Arlo McKinleyThe band released its self-titled debut album in 2014.  But there is not a lot about them on the Internet.  There is no proper Arlo McKinley & The Lonesome Sound website beyond the Bandcamp site.

    There is a Facebook page keeping fans updated about their performances (around 2,300 Likes so far).  But the band — whose members are from the Cincinnati area — was recently listed as the most popular band in that Ohio city.

    Their Arlo McKinley & The Lonesome Sound album is darn good, featuring a great country lead voice from McKinley with great backing vocals and band.  It might remind you a bit of Whiskeytown.

    Sure enough, Arlo McKinley & The Lonesome Sound list Whiskeytown among the band’s influences, along with Neil Young, The Band, Otis Reading, Circle Jerks, The Ramones, Larry Sparks, Keith Whitley, Chamberlain, Whiskeytown, Gram Parsons, and Misfits, George Jones. There is maybe a little similarity to Tyler Childers, who is the artist I started with on YouTube.

    That is a good mix of influences, and Arlo McKineley & The Lonesome Sound delivers. Do not take my word for it.  Check out some of their music.  One of my favorites is “Just Like the Rest.”  McKinley’s voice perfectly conveys the heartache in the heartbreak song. The following performance is from the 2014 Bellwether Live at Buckle Up Music Festival.

    Arlo McKinley & The Lonesome Sound is made up of McKinley, Tyler Lockard, Brian Pumphry, Zac Roe, Sylvia Mitchell, and Sarah Davis.  Their live performances often concentrate around the Ohio, Kentucky, West Virginia area.  But with their talent, look for them in your neck of the woods one day, hopefully with a new album.

    What is your favorite song by Arlo McKinely & The Lonesome Sound?  Leave your two cents in the comments.

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