Longing for the Freedom of My Chains: Dobie Gray’s “Loving Arms”

Dobie Gray had the first charting hit with the song “Loving Arms,” also recorded by artists such as Elvis Presley, The Chicks, Kris Kristofferson and Rita Coolidge.

For Valentine’s Day, we consider one of the great songs about lost love, “Loving Arms,” recorded by several artists, including Dobie Gray.

While the title of the song might make one think the song is a happy love song, instead the singer is looking back on a lost love, missing those loving arms.

Oh, I’ve been too long in the wind, yes too long in the rain,
Taking any comfort that I can;
I’ve been looking back and longing for the freedom of my chains,
And lying in your loving arms again;
I can almost feel your loving arms again.

“Loving Arms” has been recorded by a number of artists, starting with the song’s writer, Tom Jans. Jans released his version on his 1974 self-titled album. Kris Kristofferson and Rita Coolidge released “Loving Arms” as a single in late 1973 and on the album Full Moon (1973). Subsequently, Elvis Presley also included the song on his 1974 album Good Times. After Presley’s death, his version was released as a single in 1981.

But it was Dobie Gray who was one of the first, along with Kristofferson and Coolidge, to chart with the song from his album Loving Arms. His version made the Billboard Top 100 (at 61) in 1973.

Dobie Gray is one of those artists who is so identified with one great song (“Drift Away”) that we often overlook the rest of magnificent work. His take on “Loving Arms” reveals all of the sadness in the lyrics.

Other artists have continued to record “Loving Arms,” including the Dixie Chicks (The Chicks) on their 1998 album Wide Open Spaces.

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    Make It Through the Night

    In 1970, Kris Kristofferson and Rita Coolidge met on an airplane flight, leading to Kristofferson getting off the plane with Coolidge in Memphis instead of continuing on to his planned destination of Nashville. The two would eventually marry. Although the marriage would not last, the two made some great recordings, including performances of Kristofferson’s “Help Me Make It Through the Night.”

    In the 1972 UK live performance below, a viewer can easily see that the two are captivated by each other. Kristofferson does not take his eyes off Coolidge and the two are touching or nearly touching throughout the song.

    The performance appears to capture two people intensely in love in the time leading up to their marriage the following year. Or maybe they were just acting. You be the judge.

    In 1978, Kristofferson and Coolidge both appeared on an episode of The Muppet Show. During that episode, Coolidge sang her hit song “We’re All Alone.”

    On the episode, Kristofferson did sing “Help Me Make It Through the Night.” But he had a new partner, Miss Piggy.

    Kristofferson and Coolidge divorced in 1980 after a rocky marriage reportedly marred by Kristofferson’s alcoholism and infidelities. The two had a child, created some great music, and got through some lonely nights together.

    “Help Me Make It Through the Night” originally appeared on Kristofferson’s self-titled 1970 album. The album also features other classics written by Kristofferson, who recently retired.

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